Give Yourself Permission

You dont have to look for yourself, just be and do, you will be you, trust me
You dont have to look a certain way to be cool, and "cool" can actually be pretty lame
Pursue the desires of your heart, and do it when its still today. Those things will change, and it may seem painful to release them, but youll be glad you did in the end.

Every one loves differently. And every one they love, differently. Just because it doesnt come in the form you expect and believe your right to demand, doesnt mean it doesnt exist at all
At any moment of your life that you feel more suffocated than cherished, more burdened than enlightened, and more pain than freedom, you have the right to let it all go

Proceed accordingly.